Sunday, May 5, 2024

Banter 75: Memories - their variability, reliability, malleability

Topic: Memories - what impacts their varying qualities, reliability, and malleability (for you)?

Host: Sabine's house 

Date: Sunday, May 5th at 6pm

Bring: Potluck taco party for Cinco de Mayo

Our prep reading:  https://www.cbc.ca/natureofthings/features/we-change-our-memories-each-time-we-recall-them-but-that-doesnt-mean-were-l

Or, here is the related documentary on CBC (set up free account to view & be in Canada via vpn or in actuality): https://gem.cbc.ca/the-nature-of-things/s58e06?autoplay=1  (45 mins. Very good!!)




Elvis singing "Memories" (1968)


Saturday, January 27, 2024

Banter 74 - Radiolab podcast "The Living Room"

Mystery Topic

Date: February 18th, 6 pm

Location: Mitch's in Kalispell (see email for directions)

We are going to try something a little different for this banter.

We will all listen, together, to a 20 minute podcast segment. 

The episode will remain a mystery....no prep work or submissions needed for this one.

The podcast is a story that is quite visual, with a number of different threads to discuss.

So that you know what the gist is, the segment is described as 'bearing witness to something that, maybe, we weren't supposed to'. It has some funny moments, some adult themes, and some sad moments.

It will, likely, bring up different thoughts from each participant. After listening, we will each discuss the primary 'thread' of the story that we were stuck with at the end, and why.

We don't want to 'seed' too many ideas in advance, but possible topics that could come from it are, eavesdropping, passive observation, caring for people we have never met, love, and grief.

Being Valentines month, the thought was to find a 'love' related topic. There is 'love' in this one, but it is nuanced and should make for good conversation.

After going around the circle, we will pick a theme or two and discuss them in more depth.

It should be fun. The last time we listened to a podcast together the topic was laughter, and lots of that ensued.

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Podcast was: "The Living Room" on Radiolab: https://radiolab.org/podcast/living-room-2401/transcript

Related film suggestion: Rear Window (1954) with Jimmy Stewart and Grace Kelly





Thursday, January 4, 2024

Banter 73 - What is the point or purpose of asking philosophical questions?

 Wednesday, January 10th at 6pm

at Lavonne's lovely home in Kalispell








Here are some prep materials to get us considering this topic from some overlapping vantage points:


From Mitch:

This seems like a hard topic to find materials on and to prep for as our discussions may come down to personal experience and opinion. I like those kind of discussions. I read the topic as ‘what is the point or purpose of asking ourselves philosophical questions?'. Maybe it is meant to be broader and encompass humanity philosophizing as a whole? Either way, I was a little stumped when it came to researching and gathering material. 

Two questions I kept coming back to were ‘what, exactly, is a philosophical question (is it different for different individuals)?’, and, ‘is getting an answer important, or is the process of critical thinking itself the greatest value?’.

I saw a cartoon somewhere, that I can’t locate, that showed some scientists discussing a group of philosophers across the room saying something like, ’all they do is talk about thinking about thinking’. I’ve included another one that implies a schism between science and philosophy. Knowledge vs. wisdom?  Stephen Hawking declared that ‘philosophy is dead’ (at least in terms of being able to make knowledge claims). I don’t want us to rabbit hole on that debate for banter, but am bringing it up in regards to ‘answers’ as the plays into ‘what is the purpose or point’.

In looking around the internet I kept coming to a 2009 paper by Bourget and Chalmers who conducted an extensive survey of thousands of professional philosophers in the English speaking world, and their views on philosophical questions. In short, it seems that, even among the best philosophical minds, there is little agreement on any answers. The survey was redone in 2020 and provides a nice list of professional philosopher questions (though I’m hoping we will banter on more informal dorm room philosophy) with the results on the ‘answers’ (beliefs?) that were given.  It’s worth a quick skim of the survey results at the link, below, and, if you want to dive deeper into the research and papers, you can skim through a lot more info on the lefthand menu.


I know that what professional philosopher's' consensus is, somewhat, off topic, but a big part of what I’d like to banter about is if philosophy can provide answers or is it, often, a case of the journey being more important than the destination?





From Sabine:

The comics produced by the Existential Comics illustrators are pretty great, such as the "Why did you want to do philosophy at all?" one above and the Nietzsche one above. Also, this one:


And a longer one with Kierkegaard running a help line at this link made me laugh for a while:  https://existentialcomics.com/comic/347

This made me consider that answering our banter topic will be rooted in really thinking about a number of foundational or contemporary philosophers & the specific questions or conditions they are grappling with. So, I think we should all do a little bit more poking around into 2, 3, 5 philosophers each. What is the point or purpose of asking the philosophical questions that Marx did? has a whole different feel than What is the point or purpose of asking the philosophical questions that Fiona Woollard is? (Fyi, she's one of my fav. contemporary philosophers that I've listened in on in person & read, not that you need to know her or read her.)

Looking into that for ourselves will be good, but so will considering What is the point or purpose of me or my favorite family members or my best friends asking philosophical questions when we're together? As in, what does us asking these questions and going on about them with each other (instead of all the other things we could be talking about or focusing on) do for us? 

And my third angle on this topic loops back to these comics again - this shit is just funny & minds like this are fun & funny (think back to when we read The Symposium - Greek definitions and stories of "Love/Eros") to read, observe, engage with, and self-cultivate. With the time I've got, unless I'm on a mountain top or in an art museum (and well, actually in those locations too) I don't honestly see the point of doing much of anything else with my weird human mind but asking philosophical questions & trying to get other people around me to talk about them too (thus this banter group!). And when I come across people who try to have a normal conversation with me, I'm at a loss & seem kind of socially inept.  😂 







Monday, November 13, 2023

Banter 72: Hygge

Date: Sunday, November 19th at 6pm

Location: Sabine's house

Zoom option: Zoom link emailed out (or ask Sabine if you can't find it)


With some trepidation about sounding new agey, as we northern hemisphere dwellers shift into the tilt away from the sun & the dark hours grow long, our patterns and moods change. Some people like the shut-in, hibernation quality of this portion of our year, while others stay buoyant through strapping skis or skates to feet for as many hours as they can fit in. Sauna culture is another angle on making winter and coldness feel fun vs. something to merely survive. 

Hygge - a quality of coziness and comfortable conviviality that engenders a feeling of contentment or well-being (regarded as a defining characteristic of Danish culture) - isn’t reserved for fall and winter only, though it surely comes to mind more then. Not surprisingly, this developed among some fellow northern hemisphere residents. Most / all? cultures that deal with extended winter (incl. south hemisphere dwellers) surely have their hyggelig practices and customs. We know that mental health struggles increase greatly for humans in the winter months, with sad self-harm statistics in Montana being all too well known to most of us, along with great increases in alcohol consumption this time of year and other trends that indicate attempts at coping. 

Well before hygge was a trendy hipster / bourgeoisie concept in the US, ski bum Whitefish, for example, was hanging twinkle lights along rooftops not just for Christmas but Nov-March to alight the streets with cozy factor, gathering in roasty warm pubs (for the alcohol load, yes, but also for the camaraderie and closeness), holing up with friends and family at potlucks, meeting at the Moose lodge for bingo nights, having 7am coffee at a cordoned-off corner table at the Buff, taking part in ski torch parades & lining nordic paths with lanterns at night, hanging feed for the townie birds and squirrels, baking muffins, lighting old world candle chimes, and all the things we each do to help each other to arrive to the long-lit, effortlessly joyous days of summer once again. 

So, we gather in hyggelig manner this second most dark month of the year. 

Some mellow prep materials on the topic:

















Saturday, May 13, 2023

Banter 71: Are white lies good or bad?




Upcoming topic:
Are white lies good or bad? Do you engage in them? Do you sometimes feel it was the wrong decision? Do you fess up in those instances? Do you want to be told white lies? Do you lie to yourself sometimes? Can you share examples of when white lies brought people closer together? Can you share specific examples of when white lies created distance and disconnection in a relationship?



Topic from: Lavonne Burgard (thanks, Lavonne!)

Date: Monday, May 29th at 6:30pm 

Location: At Mitch's in Kalispell 

Zoom option: Emailed to group; if you didn't get the link, email Sabine.


Resources to spend time with before we meet to discuss:

Short overview article: https://greatergood.berkeley.edu/article/item/whats_good_about_lying

Short psychology article: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/love-lies-and-conflict/202210/do-white-lies-help-or-hurt-your-relationship

Scholarly article "The Dishonesty of Honest People": https://people.duke.edu/~dandan/webfiles/PapersDisHonesty/The%20Dishonesty%20of.pdf


These resources speak to related concepts that may be helpful to mull over too:

Hidden Brain podcast (50 mins):   https://www.npr.org/2018/08/30/643321125/can-you-handle-the-truth

Medium length article with a lot of historical quotes about lies, truth, lying: https://www.bbc.co.uk/ethics/lying/lying_1.shtml



Friday, March 17, 2023

Banter 70: Our collective human fascination with the macabre - why? what purpose does it serve?

Goosebumps book series is targeted at 9-12 year old readers

Upcoming Topic: Our historical and current fascination with the macabre in stories/podcasts/children fables/myths/tv shows/etc. What purpose does it serve us to be drawn to the macabre vs. being propelled away from it?

Date: Saturday, April 22nd at 6pm

Host: at Sabine’s house

Zoom option: See email from 3/17


Materials to spend some time with to help you think further about the topic: 


From Chris: Seems like there's a link between our need for mythology and our fascination with crime thrillers, but I couldn't find anything directly in Joseph Campbell. To support Chris’ train of thought, I found this tracing our historic fascination pre-podcast with the macabre: https://www.ancient-origins.net/artifacts-ancient-writings/true-crime-0016921
   
The Strange Case of Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde, published 1886

Or, somewhat related, we can look to Carl Jung’s psychological concept of a shadow (the part of our psyche that harbours our darkest impulses). Here is a video explaining it: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rgLQWutNxKc

Here also is Joseph Campbell speaking about that: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GzYsi3SV1bY

Caravaggio’s painting of Medusa, 1597 (in the Uffizi, Florence, Italy)



From Sabine: Pretty basic, but not bad talking points on the topic: https://www.mentalfloss.com/article/559256/why-we-love-true-crime

If you haven’t listened to any True Crime podcasts yet, maybe try your hand at an episode from one of NPR’s many: https://www.npr.org/podcasts/2069/true-crime

Or, consider an episode of a recent, Seattle-based, fictional crime / detective series I binged on, The Killing (on Hulu), based on the original Danish series, Forbrydelsen. This is not an American phenomenon, as Scandinavian crime shows are considered the best by film snob sorts, referring to them as Scandi Noir. Hate the title of the American version of this show, but man the character development of the two detectives is so well done, as are the moody Seattle specifics.



If you only have time to review the materials briefly, I’d suggest Mitch’s SNL skit first, then the first YouTube video explaining Jung’s shadow self concepts, and maybe the ancient-origins website link to get more sense of this not being a contemporary neuroses or new development in humans.