Date: Late July or very early August (still pinning down); evening
Host: Annette's house
Initial materials to look through on the topic:
Tell the truth, but tell it slant. -Emily Dickinson
Date: Late July or very early August (still pinning down); evening
Host: Annette's house
Initial materials to look through on the topic:
Karma: Is it true what goes around comes around? or how can karma be understood beyond the revenge myth?
Place: Himalayan Kitchen (1250 U.S. Hwy 2 W)
Time: 6pm, Thursday, June 25th
A little prep beforehand:
https://docs.google.com/document/d/10lcmjg8SEG7-n8BZN4yESQe9106rMpwPhVsu8TW7tcM/edit?tab=t.0
https://vedapath.app/blog/karma-is-not-what-instagram-thinks-it-is-a-philosophical-deep-dive
Dalai Lama chiming in: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=auxTltN7qJs
Or more simply, How does verbal and visual / non-verbal communication work (or not work)?
When: Thursday, May 29th at 6pm
Where: Bonsai Brewery, outdoor picnic tables, in Whitefish
a. “In a Station of a Metro" by Ezra Pound (poem in full):
The apparition of these faces in the crowd: Petals on a wet, black bough.
b. A haiku by Mizuta Masahide, 17th-century Japanese poet:
Barn's burnt down --nowI can see the moon.

As mammals we are always using our brains to process all the inputs around us. That is the way we survived. Humans tend to automatically embellish the input with thoughts such as subject, object and stories.
Success and Failure of Visual Communication.
The input might be something you pick up with your eyes (as well as the 4 other senses). The success of visual communication is that direct thoughts inspire direct action. When our ancestors saw a tiger the ancestor said, “It’s a tiger. Run.” Look at Picasso’s Guernica. Or Van Gogh’s Starry Night. They make you want to directly do something. The failure is that sometimes our ancestors died anyway, and ugliness is very difficult to get rid of.
Success and Failure of Verbal Communication
The input might be a verbal memory from your brain (in written or sound form). It always refers to a complicated construct or story and always misses the boat. “That is a beautiful person. I love or hate her, him, they”. Or “Make America Great Again”. The verbiage becomes part of a narrative that you have already stored in your subconscious. It becomes an addiction. Not only is the narrative itself addictive, but getting what you think you want is also addictive. It is a constant story in your mind that keeps repeating itself. It causes stress. The communication triggers both subject and object. The success of verbal communication is that technology has improved. The failure is that we are always on the brink of war. We tend to think the story is real. We get stuck in our minds. We feel stressed. It causes destruction of our environment. It overvalues money.
THE MIND
It takes about 500 msec before we begin to process whatever happens in the “here and now”. At that time the inputs pass through the 6 gates, and we become aware of the thing. This is the beginning of perception. At this point we can go to sleep and grasp at thoughts that come up. Or we can stay awake to whatever arises. In Sleep we react. In Awakeness we savor whatever experience we are having. Meditation is a skill to learn so that we can control our experience rather than being limited to our concepts about it. We learn to dance with Sleep, the conditioned overprotective conceptual framework. Here is a diagram about this:
—--------------------------------TIME—--------------------------------------->
Inputs l A. Awakeness (a human trait)
l Non-conceptual
Percept (raw feel) l Savoring and Calm
l Ornamentation
Grasping l Bliss
Brain Luminosity
6 Gates fires Joy
touch at
smell 500
taste msec. B. Sleep (a robotic trait)
thought Conceptual (Cognition)
sight Agitated
sound Labeling
Construction of identity, “I” and “it”
Reactivity
Jivan
Date: Friday, April 11th, 6pm
Host: Annette's house (directions were emailed)
Topic: Culture Codes
Plan on: Saving room for dinner! Annette is making a main dish related to our topic, and will also have coffee, tea, sparkling water, possibly "some weird variety of snacks."
A little topic preview:
Annette had read a book recently about culture codes (see book cover below), and then she and I just free-formed related tangents over a yummy Himalayan dinner on this topic. The examples Annette shared from the book were really cool and got my wheels turning. The main one she shared (which I may butcher but Annette will clarify night of banter) had to do with some coffee company from the US thinking they’d make a bunch of easy money in Japan by tapping into an untapped coffee market there a while back, but then when they tried it went over like a lead balloon because it turned out the Japanese did not have the cozy associations with coffee drinking, coffee socializing, coffee smells, family coffee related nostalgic experiences, etc.that much of the rest of the world has in their family/friend/work systems. So then they had to take a more long-game plan for their business model and kind of manufacture those experiences in for their target Japanese audience; that part was kind of gross and capitalistic manipulative, but still interesting to mull over, especially related to any of the ways any of us become parts of who we are in relation to products or economic cultural coding.
Date: Friday, Feb. 28, 6pm
Host: at Mitch's (Kalispell)
Bring: Snacks & drinks
Our runner up topic last time was The Psychology of Humor, so we're diving into that when maybe we need it most - deep winter amid a government coup.
Where: Sabine's house
When: Sunday, Dec. 15, 5-7pm
Bring: Any fruits or savoury items you care to for fill ingredients, and any drinks to share.
Dinner: Crepes (fruit, chocolate sauce, savory)
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Thanks, everyone, for voting. It was neck and neck there for a while 🫣 🤣 between psychology of humor & Hidden Brain’s podcast episode “What’s better than being happy?” The podcast episode won out by two votes though. This makes our January topic easy, plus exploring humor in deep, dark January may be just the thing!
Topic: The Relationship Between Art & Morality