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Friday, March 17, 2023
Banter 70: Our collective human fascination with the macabre - why? what purpose does it serve?
Wednesday, February 8, 2023
Banter 69: Digital Life, from a philosophy perspective
Date: Thursday, Feb. 23 at 6pm
Host: Annette
Topic: Digital Life, from a philosophy perspective
Nathan Dufour Oglesby is a philosopher who also creates YouTube and TikTok videos with a comedic focus (Nathanology), such as this one on the etymology of "Superbowl."
Epicureanism, an ancient Greek philosophy known for its lessons on material existence and pleasure-seeking, can also be applied to living well on social media and the internet. Nathan Dufour Oglesby (who likes to put the fun in philosophy) explains:
https://www.bbc.com/future/article/20220901-the-epicurean-guide-to-digital-life
Saturday, November 12, 2022
Banter 68: Is it possible to talk ourselves/others down from the ledge of extremism? How would this happen?
Friday, November 18th at 7pm
At Annette's house (Zoom option for out-of-towners)
Your trusty founder here: This topic did not get my vote & I even encouraged a friend or two to vote otherwise so we could talk of anything but this one. But, alas, the majority spoke. Why the aversion, the cognitive inflexibility, if you will? The answer is two- or threefold.
From a banter perspective, we said from the start we would never talk politics for a topic in this group, since we can do that in plenty of other social circles if so inclined. From a personal perspective, I feel fatigued by extremism's plentiful nature currently on the world stage, so I'm not keen to fold it also into lovely, cozy banter nights. Also, I experience leaden-eyed despair when faced with the glazed over look of an extremist talking at you, or anyone glazed over talking, talking, talking & not engaged in anything like mutuality or curiosity. I fear that even talking about those who talk like this will feel akin to that glazed over look. And, lastly, my more ungrudging reason, I'm uncomfortable with the question itself. It seems to imply a hierarchy or a savior role, or one person in the right vs. the one tipping off the ledge, when aren't we all prone to these same mind conditions, these tendencies toward fairly massive cognitive distortions? And isn't one of those massive cognitive distortions to be quite easily convinced that we are saviors of others who are distasteful or less good than ourselves?
So, I posed my groans to Anna Stene, formerly in CFalls, now in Brooklyn for three years, and she graciously listened. Between the two of us we played with the topic in the below ping ponging convo:
Instead of focusing on saving others, couldn't it be how do I talk myself from the ledge of non-helpful thinking patterns, etc.? Suddenly that I'm very interested in, but not at all when it has some sort of savior complex, liberal or not.
What if it wasn't a free for all on any arena but we could only talk about areas where we brush up against extremism in our own belief systems and how that impacts our relationships?
...there I see hope and possibility of bridge building if I start with my self and my own mind inclinations and my own relationships. If we all do that together we might get closer to the root of this topic.
Wednesday, October 12, 2022
Banter 67: Are you the same person you used to be? For how long will you be the same person you are now?

Thursday, October 27th at 6pm

Monday, October 4, 2021
Banter 66 - Who is Vivian Maier?
Topic: Who is Vivian Maier?
Date: Saturday, November 13th at 5pm-6:30pm
Location: Sabine's living room, maybe. Windows open, masks most of the time? (Zoom for those who feel uncomfortable with that or who are faraway.)
Thursday, August 26, 2021
Banter 65 - The Case for Interacting with Time Non-Linearly
Where: at Sabine's backyard (and via Zoom or Facetime for those far away)
When: Sunday, October 3rd 4-6pm
Bring: a blanket or layers if it is chilly, an extra outside chair if you have it handy, food/drinks to share as you'd like
Tuesday, May 4, 2021
Banter 64 - Is Leisure Time Required to Produce Art?
Does creating art hinge on leisure time, or can the arts be produced by those not fortunate enough to have access to periods of 'peace and quiet'?
Under what conditions is art most often produced? What are the exceptions?
When is art more difficult to produce and, historically, have there been periods where large parts of society have not had access to the conditions to produce art?
If art requires the 'free time and relative peace' does it over-represent those privileged with those conditions and under-represent the more socio-economically or politically oppressed? If 'History is written by the victors' is (most) art created by the leisure class?
Consider all forms of art (music, folk art, visual art, literature, theater, dance, etc.). Are some forms of art more the realm of privilege than others?
We can likely find examples to support varying positions we might take on the topic - please do bring those particular examples from all corners of the arts, because generalizing will be less interesting.
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An overview from Sabine.
Thanks, Sabine, for these intro materials to get the creative juices flowing!
It may be helpful to read some excerpts from Virginia Woolf, who focused on this problem more in depth than I’m aware of in any other piece of writing or lecture in her (1928) A Room of One’s Own (link). Here are some key excepts:
Ch. 6, excerpt:
Ch. 3 excerpts:
“…returning again to my original enquiry into what state of mind is most propitious for creative work, because the mind of an artist, in order to achieve the prodigious effort of freeing whole and entire the work that is in him, must be incandescent, like Shakespeare's mind, I conjectured, looking at the book which lay open at Antony and Cleopatra. There must be no obstacle in it, no foreign matter unconsumed. For though we say that we know nothing about Shakespeare's state of mind, even as we say that, we are saying something about Shakespeare's state of mind. The reason perhaps why we know so little of Shakespeare--compared with Donne or Ben Jonson or Milton--is that his grudges and spites and antipathies are hidden from us. We are not held up by some "revelation" which reminds us of the writer. All desire to protest, to preach, to proclaim an injury, to pay off a score, to make the world the witness of some hardship or grievance was fired out of him and consumed. Therefore his poetry flows from him free and unimpeded. If ever a human being got his work expressed completely, it was Shakespeare. If ever a mind was incandescent, unimpeded, I thought, turning again to the bookcase, it was Shakespeare's mind.”
Here is a contemporary rebuttal-of-sorts to Woolf’s claim that writers need money and a room of their own, ie mental space: https://electricliterature.com/what-if-you-cant-afford-a-room-of-ones-own/
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FROM ANNETTE:
Hello! I'd like to use the example of Irina Ratushinskya as an example that leisure is not required. She was imprisoned for her works and wrote all throughout her time in prison. (Quite the opposite of luxury.) Here is a quick reference (from Wikipedia):
"On 17 September 1982 Ratushinskaya was arrested and accused of anti-Soviet agitation for writing and circulating her collections of verse.
Between 1 and 3 March 1983, she was tried in Kiev and convicted of "agitation carried on for the purpose of subverting or weakening the Soviet regime" (Article 62). Ratushinskaya received the maximum sentence of seven years in a strict-regime labor camp, followed by five years of internal exile. After being imprisoned three and a half years, including one year in solitary confinement in an unheated cell
while temperatures fell to minus 40C in the winter, she was released on 9 October 1986, on the eve of the summit in Reykjavík, Iceland between President Ronald Reagan andMikhail Gorbachev.
While imprisoned Ratushinskaya continued to write poetry. Her previous works usually centered on love, Christian theology, and artistic creation, not on politics or policies as her accusers stated. Her new works that were written in prison, which were written with a matchstick on soap until memorized and then washed away, number some 250. They expressed an appreciation for human rights; liberty, freedom, and the beauty of life. Her memoir, Grey is the Colour of Hope, chronicles her prison experience. Her later poems recount her struggles to endure the hardships and horrors of prison life. Ratushinskaya was a member of International PEN, who monitored her situation during her incarceration."